Hi Deb,

You are anxious that H might go back to ow. But now is when as Ellie said you need to be your best, kindest wonderful self so he can see that there's no contest.

I do think it seems that he is seeing her as she really is and he's actually opening up with you about it which I think is a positive.

Don't let the anxiety bug derail you. Maybe you can do something for yourself in the midst of all this to make you feel better.

But don't give in to your fears.