Definitely. My H commented to me once (about the time he was in the affair) "I knew something was wrong but I couldn't quite put my finger on it". Honestly!!! His brain was so addled he actually couldn't form the conscious thought "gee, I'm cheating on my wife and hurting my kids and my family - maybe this isn't such a good idea?"
All I know is, depression or whatever, it is a form of mental illness that most of our WASs go through.
