Sorry Ellie, I just got back on the board, actually i'm at work and I needed to take care of some stuff (imagine that)....I did stop emailing him. I actually wrote out 2 more and then deleted them. I managed to decide on my own to just let it drop. I did get an email from him saying he wasnt back with her, "believe me after 2 years and nothing happening she is ready to move on" and that he couldnt take the intensity and that yes, it was going to drive him away because he cant live with it.
I realized also that I'll never get him to open up, and stay that way, if I'm so reactive. It is damn hard for me to deal with this though, since I've seen and heard the exact same thing at least 2X before.
Instead of sending the email, I called the attorney again, and got the details about filing, costs info that I forgot to ask last week.
I will send you my number I can get a head knocking when needed. I appreciate your offer.
