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Frankly, I think several months of not "doing" "Paperwork" on Saturdays would be the most helpful thing of all for me. On the other hand, I know that it is realistic that there will be sometimes when he does have to catch up on "overflow"....and it will be really tough to deal with.




You know - I think it's okay, if the time comes that he really does have to go in, for you to go in with him. Bring some paperwork of your own. Surely, if he's sincere in reconciling, he'll understand. And he might even enjoy the company

Ellie