Hi Hope, thanks for stopping by. I read your new piecing thread this morning, I'll try to keep up with you. I see so many similarities in our sitchs. as I recall you are struggling with exactly the same stuff I am, esp. the trust and anxiety issues..............
Quote: But your H has not left home. Clearly he does not want to lose you.
Frankly, this is a huge point of confusion for me....I cant understand this. It's been over 2 years now that he's been seeing the whore....if it was so great, and so bad with us, WHY THE HECK IS HE STILL HERE????????????????? I can't understand this, and it really messes up my mind. I read a book (written for the ow) that says if a guy hasnt left his family/wife within 3 months, it ain't gonna happen. If he hasnt stopped sleeping with his wife, he's not gonna leave.
I dunno, it all messes up my mind. I guess maybe someday I will have to ask him about this.
