Hi Deb,

I've been following your sitch. Its been a rough time for you but you seem to be coming out of it. I see lots of positives with your H.

Thanks for bringing up the GAL issue because I have had same problem with my H. He has said I don't do anything but wants me at home when he gets there.

So the GAL balance has been a confusing issue for me. Pam and tc have shed some light on it. THanks guys.

Deb you seem so much clearer to me in what you want and what you are doing. I think it is important to have set boundaries with H. Going through the OW cycle quite a few times must have been hard.

But your H has not left home. Clearly he does not want to lose you. So work with that and we are all rooting for you on the BB.

Hope