I am not one to tell you to withold s@x from H. We seemed to be at it more now than before the bomb. Don't know why. He initiated more now. Before, he was like trying to avoid me. As men cannot multi-task, perhaps when we ML, he concentrates on only that, and do not have the pain of remembering his break-up with the OW? I don't know, and I don't want to care either. As long as I am happy and comfortable doing it. I don't wanna care or think about the OW.
There is really no point is pondering if he is calling her, or seeing her, or yearning for her...cause you can't control it. At the end of the day, we just get miserable pondering it. Might as well just concentrate on something positive and nice. I know it is difficult. I should practice what I preach too....Still trying hard too...
