I supposed you'll never really know, would you? He could be a very good actor...worthy of an Oscar! My H said he broke off with the OW, but how do I know if it is really true? The OW is a co-worker...he sees her everyday at work. I mean, he could say that he has broken up with her just to shut me up. Who knows? Not I! I have not allowed myself to be bothered by him nor his OW no more. I have been focussing on myself and my kids more these days.