It's golferpro again - one more thing. Do you think this whole thing could just be very flattering to H? He has her attention and I think she wants him because I actually do beleive some of the things he says and I do think she might be pursuing. So sometimes I wonder if he just like the attention. When we have been out we now have a good time, and there is so much more affection in our relationship more than there has been in 2 years. See then I start to think - maybe I'm stupid, maybe there is something more going on. But, then I think I'm being paranoid. I go from one extreme to the next. Is this normal? Also, how will we ever rebuild trust? ANy suggestions? Won't the calls have to completely stop for me to feel good? Will H just say there are no more calls? Will H say I want to rebuild trust? You see we have talked about trust and he knows it will take time, but then he does somethings like the phone calls and where was he 2 weeks ago on Saturday morning when he says he was at an AA meeting. I have never brought the AA meeting up but he was gone for 2 hours and I really don't think that is where he was. Will he ever become an honest person or are H like this just chronic liars?
