It's golferpro again. Last night I came homeand H had dinner ready for the kids and was feeding them. He was taking me out to dinner. We went to dinner and had a nice time, but while he ran into the store I looked thru a folder of his. This folder shows when he goes to AA - sign in and out times. Well last week he left the house in the AM on saturday and said that is where he was going. But on the sign in sheet it shows he went at lunch on Thursday. So I think he lied to me. I mention in a round about way when he gets back in the car that I wish he wasn't like his friend that lies to his W. H then says to me - what you do go thru my folder, you don't have a clue everything is not there and you are looking at the wrong things. So now I get to thinking, where was he for 2 hours. Did he meet the OW? Why would he lie about this? So later in the evening last night we do get into an argument. I tell him I just can't take this and it is not right maybe we should end it. In the beginning of the argument he states no that is not what he wants. But the argument continues and he states he is sick of me looking at his phone bill, he is going to get a new cell phone, it is none of my business and he doesn't want either of us. So what does that mean - "he doesn't want either of us"? If nothing is going on why would he say "either" of us. Sometimes I think he is trying to do the right thing and keep our family together, but I think their is something going on. I'm not sure what, but something. I really don't think H is sleeping with OW but I think their is something or why would they continue to talk on the phone. Why would he get so upset that I saw his files and it looks like he lied? I'm thinking maybe I should just go away. I'm so sick of this up and down business, I just want to be happy again. Any advice? Am I wasting my time?
