Chrissy...old saying, Gals go to the Counsellor when they feel its over and are looking for aformation. Guys think the problem just started when the gal goes.
Guys arent emotional for the most part, some of the sensitive ones turn out to be gay. Its rare when you find a guy thats got compassion and empathy, tenderness and romance, and can still venture forth into blood and guts world which is a guys.
Pity me that the heart is slow to learn
What the swift mind beholds at every turn.
Edna St. Vincent Millay