Wow again amazed and also feeling bad that I am deverting from Tim.
Have my husband and myself attended marriage consuling yes we did a year ago. Did not last long my husband can not deal with someone telling him he was just much at fault in our problems as I was if not more in some aspects.
I have a posting under the newcommers that is long yet says nothing and has not generated as much response as I have recieved from my response to someone else. Lol
When I say that my issues are to vast and not in the same line as what people are trying to achieve here. My situation does not just involve the sex issues but emotional and threat of physical abuse also. Which mainly stem from sex issues.
The answer to the question how does my husband make me feel this way wow long long story but shortley put. I hid from my marital problems through my job for almost 8 years of my life through my work excessivly for the last 5 years. Got real sick went through major depression could not get out of bed got sucidal the whole works also had a few medical conditions at the time was always at the doctors husband never noticed never asked what was up or what was happening. Everyone else did got asked to take a leave from my job which I ended up losing in the end. Yadda yadda. The kicker as long as we were having sex he was fine a happy camper. When I finally was like I am done all of a sudden he was like why I thought we were happy. He admitted that there were things that he thought could improve to our consuler which only included sex in the end. But he thought that basically he was happy and we had a good marriage and could not understand my anger..
So much for short. I will get the book I promise do you know what bookstores carry it .
