I can sympathize with your position too (no pun intended)...although I am the HDW in my R. Reading this post makes me feel that much more that you need to read "The Five Love Languages"...it's a short book, easy to read...and well worth it. Your H obviously needs to read it as well....I have a feeling he has no clue as to how he's making you feel. Sure, you may have told him time and time and time again....but so far the light hasn't come on for him.
Tell us this, have you two attended marriage counseling at all? If not, would this be an option?
You two obviously have different love languages, they key (IMO) is now to learn to speak them for each other...and that can be a very difficult thing to learn.
