Quote: Its rough. H showed up the other night in his underwear
I assume this was a recent activity?
Quote: I did enjoy the snuggles.....I didnt advance even a kiss.
People work better if they get a reward. did you tell him the snugglies or something else that happened was enjoyed? If I were you, I would have huged him atleast lightly several times, but maybe that would put him off. Only you know what is OK to do. I usuall just up the anty a little at a time when BB and I have been on the outs. Too much too soom backfires. Not enough and her advances turn to retreat.
Quote: H didn't spend the night naming his back.
??????? i don't know exactly what you want to imply, write more if you will.
Quote: I still have baggage...Its so hard to say "that's OK"
I getting there, but working on trying to eliminate some.
