I read your post to Tim and while I cringed at some of the things you said, I also understand where you are coming from. You're right in the fact that many people would love to have what he has...but the sad fact of the matter is that his W still doesn't make him feel loved in the way he needs.
Others on here have already recommended the book "The Five Love Languages", if you haven't already picked it up and read it...do so, it'll give you a clearer understanding of why Tim still isn't where he'd like to be in his M.
I'm an HDW w/an LDH....who is very nearly a perfect husband in every way....but one; and unfortunately that one area he's lacking in, is a primary need of mine....it's a way of communicating love for me. Of course he's able to communicate this in other ways for me as well...but when ONE primary area is out of whack, that happens to be your primary love language....it can throw everything off kilter.
Please do pick up the book and read it if you haven't already....it might hold several clues to your situation as well, and it's an easy read.
