I would assume that you are a "LD," or low-desire person?
I'd also assume that you are a person who's "love language" is probably "Quality Time," and not "Physical Touch?" (have you read Gary Chapman's "Five Love Languages"?)
I can let Tim speak for himself, but you do sound like you have no basic understanding of just how STRONG the desire is in a High-Desire/Physical Touch person to have these things in their life. It is the very way that we feel loved, and it is NOT "just about sex."