I also found you to be an inspiration when I first read your posts about a year ago. And speaking of "alums" I understand SuprDave is still having Friday night delight, and so the schedule can work.
On Sunday the 29th my W and I made love. After that, I decided that I would stop MB, and I LOVE MB. I figured that if I were to abstain, I would be more likely to focus my attention on my W. And it worked. Within a week, we had another encounter. It's not a schedule, but I am not letting her wriggle off the hook so easily. I'm there physically expressing my desire every chance I get.
I've spent 17 years with my W, not 27, but I'm optimistic enough to believe that change can occur whenever it is wanted. And your W shows all the signs of wanting to change. My W once said to me, "You don't know how to treat me." I was hurt, but she was right. I think that your W, like mine, is much more likely to give a slight hint that she may be in the mood, than to come right out and ask for nookie. And that's OK, at least in my book.
Paul, who says the worst day of ML is better than the best day of MB
