Cally, interesting thoughts... I'll have to reflect.
Perfect woman? No such animal. I'm not looking for perfect (God knows I'm not...). What do I want from her? I want us to be able to talk openly about sex, love, dreams, plans. I want her to be able to tell me what turns her on, and to be able to tell HER what turns ME on, and for us both to be interested enough in each other to be receptive. I want to ML with the lights ON, and for us to be able to "play together".
I know, I know... somewhere along the line, there is a connection missing between us, and what's (not) happening in the bedroom is only a manifestation of it. What I'm really concerned about, though, is our apparent lack of ability to FIND any meaningful connection...
