I wanted to ad one more thing. The fact that she did come to bed naked does to me at least indicate desire for you. I know when I undress and am naked I AM thinking about having sex with my husband. So Tim that is a positive.

Maybe you could ask her if she gets into it once you get going. Maybe it is just hard for her to feel horny herself. But Nop is right you need to learn how to create intimacy. Maybe this will help A LOT.

But I do positives in your situation that at least she is willing to try.

What would the perfect woman be like in the bedroom in your opinion??