Quote: Try to think of it this way. The "I just couldn't get into it" comment only applied to that particular session.
No, that's the thing. She was making a general statement about her state of being. I was saying that I think the main problem is her entire ATTITUDE towards sex, and that what she needs (imho) is to spend time thinking about it, jacking off, getting horny, finding out what turns her on. Her response was "That's just the thing... I can't GET horny..."
Not too sure what to do with that. I'm forming the opinion that I've pretty much done what I can, and she's just not showing up for the game. If she has an issue, or a problem, I can't really do anything beyond what I'm already doing to help her with it... it's hers to resolve, or not. I'm just thinking it may be time to really set a "hard boundary". Yes, if I do go that route, it will be in the full knowledge that I will follow through with it...