Tim.......This stuck out at me big time. She said maybe I need some sex counseling. For one I see that as a positive that she is at least willing to admit 1. fault and 2. be willing to get some sort of help. The reason she may feel against the medication issue is the horrendous side affects you can get from those. Maybe she could try some natural medications that are out there. But the sex therapy thing stuck out at me because maybe she is admitting she even though she is up there in a age but feels like she doesn't really know how to enjoy sex. Does she not orgasm during sex? Maybe some kind of sex counseling would be good. Maybe she would learn a lot of new things. I don't understand it myself but I am HD and VERY into experimenting or trying new things. But I have heard a lot about women who just can't seem to relax or enjoy sex. They are worried and thinking about their odor orthe extra fat they may have on them or their wrinkles. They can't seem to let loose and just enjoy and they also worry about looking foolish.

See for a HD woman like me I don't stress about any of those things. I am not afraid to take charge and I know what feels good and am after that feeling. If I want to be on top I will throw hubby to the bed and jump on and look him passionately in the eyes as I do so. If I want to perform oral on him I will confidently undo his pants and again look him right in the eyes as I take him into my mouth.

See there is such a big difference in confident women. She may be suffering from feeling inadequate or may be very shell shocked or shy.

I wasn't always this confident either. I guess it took my partner showing me and telling me what a great lover I was. He created the lover I am today in many ways.

Go figure he is the one who turned LD. And I am the one wondering what to do with the woman he created.