I have followed your posts over the past year, and I share your pain. I have not worked NEARLY as hard at my sitch as you (and others) have, and that is precisely what depresses me into a state of hopelessness from time to time. It's the gnawing realization that If these guys -- working SO HARD at it -- can't realize significant, ONGOING change in their LD spouses -- despite working so hard on themselves -- how in the world can I??
I think it was SolidMechanic posting on my most recent thread that said, "Maybe some people are just incompatible."
I do wish you well, and it's good to hear from you.
