Kim - Somehow, I have this feeling that your H will come running back after you in time. Just go dark and keep to your Friday evening pick-up routine. Don't let-on any info about your life to H. When your paths do cross, you have to happy and cheerful and let him know what he has missed. Now, he has gone "steady" with OW, there would be great expectations and pressure from OW's side, and soon, when H starts wanting to be his own man, he will start feeling OW is not that great after-all. Be patient and strong!!
