What is up with our H's here lately. It seems as though we all are going through a similar sitch where we have to detach all together. I don't know if you read my thread lately but I feel that I have been taken advantage of by my H with some of the DBing techniques. Don't get my wrong I think DBing is great, but it's not my character (being way too nice to H and his A). So I've decided to put my foot down with H and let him know that I no longer want him back and he needs to pick up the rest of his things and leave my house key. But I'm like you, I would love for H to come back home and work on our M but it would have to be on my terms this time. As you said, they've made the decision to walk-out on our M and be with OW so they need to live with that decision.
I'm coming up the moutain with you other sister goddesses!!
M:43 H:37 D14 (ours) D18 (mine) S22 (mine) S18 (his) S: 10/2004 Bomb: 2/15/05 In/out of home Living with OW #4 Talks of D for 2-1/2 years
