Hey Kim - I think I would have reacted the same way as you did with your H. I don't think that if he has chosen OW over us, I would be able to be "Friends" with him. I told H that for visitation with sons, he would text me and I would text back. And that would be it. I really really don't think I would want to know about H's life or whatever. It would be STRICTLY business! So, although not exactly DBING, I can understand why you went this route.
