Hey Kim
Just finished reading your post and boy did i just get a slap in the face of reality. Oh how alike we are. Please don't take this the wrong way because you just made me see what it is i do and i am telling you so you can stop with me..Twins

In your convo with H you talk and talk and talk and explain and explain and say why and bring up OW. Just like ME You just made her the whole focal point of your whole sitch just like i do. Now i am understanding what i do so maybe now i can stop it. The whole time YOU had this convo with your H he said almost nothing but look at all you said, just like me and mine too funny that it has taken me so long to figure this out but now i have to watch out HONEY your wife is now armed and dangerous. Please i hope i didn't hurt your feelings and if i did i'm really sorry.

Go back to one of my posts with a convo i had with H now that i have pointed it out and see if you know what i mean.

I think we may have just taken some of the invisible control our Hs have over us....YEH!!!

Let me know what you think and again sorry if i offended you as that is not my intent.

Twin Angelwings