Hey guys thanks for the support but I better update you all as the rollercoaster just picked up speed. OW rang me on Friday to give me an earful about H and S9. She said I cannot use S9 as blackmail tool and she was sick of seeing H so sad over his son. Well that was it the bull was let out of the gate and I just charged. (Angel you will love this) NOT STICKING TO THE RULES I KNOW but nonetheless:- Me to OW - Understand this you bi$$ch for 5 months I have stood back and said zero on this whole thing for the sake of my sons future. I wanted my H and I to remain friends and both be able to do things with our son. As for you sticking your nose into my childs business well that is the final straw. You have fu$king cheek to ring me up and tell me what to do at fifty Fu$king one I would have thought you would have more sense but obviously not. It is bad enough that you would fu#k a married man in the first place but add to that that you did if for 3yrs says alot about the type of character you are as for interferring in his life with his child well that is the most ridiculous thing I have ever heard. You are the one fu#king with his head at the moment one moment you are on and the next your are not I couldn't give a damn what you decide as you will never ever know what he is doing at my place or when he is there. You think you can't trust him now just wait and you keep the fu#k out of my business in regards to my S because if you interfere you will only succeed in making things worse. My H does not want to go thru the courts and is happy with him and I working things out ourselves but if you push things and tell him like your telling me you have that he should go thru the courts then bring it on sweetheart but make sure you tell my H what your doing as he will not be happy about it. Him and I years ago did this for 5yrs with his other S and it nearly killed him as that woman was a non-access mother and the things she did my H would never want to go thru that again so you keep pushing and we will see who pays in the end. Do not ring me or contact me again as I have nothing to say to a lowlife cheating middle aged cow like yourself. Butt out of my life and worry about your own. Keep taking your fu#king drugs to get thru the day but take more so you are incapable of ringing me and annoying me now GOODBYE..... .......I tell you I felt alot better for getting it all off my chest. So the next morning when H was there I told him about it and said I don't care what you and her do but leave our son out of it. He said it really doesn't matter as we are not together (him & OW) and I said well tell her to leave me the fu#k alone. Anyway everything was fine H had coffee we went and signed forms and he left. Then he picked me and S up for footy the next morning. He had a coffee first and S asked if he could come for tea on his birthday, H said he would love to but he was working on the Tuesday night so S said how about Wednesday and H said Yep O.K that would be fine if it's alright with your mum. I said yes of course. On the way to footy I asked H what he would like for tea and he told me we went to sons footy and had a good time and I said to H you seem alot happier today and he said well yeh OW and I are working it out as of last night. I said Oh good I am glad you are happy just dont tell me details. That was all that was said. H dropped us home after footy and my mobile rang about 1 hour later and it was H saying I have some bad news......I am not allowed to come on Wednesday night (WTF) I said what and he said OW will not allow me to go and I said you are joking aren't you and he said it is too difficult she doesn't trust me or you and if you are going to be there I am not allowed to go. I said fine you have chosen her over your son I wont give you grief that is fine and he said Look I am really sorry I want to come but at the moment I have to prove to her I can be trusted as you and I have done the wrong thing in the past. I said stiff [censored] that was not our sons fault anyway if you are going allow her to control you like that then fine. Later I sent him a text saying look now that someone else is controlling sitch that has nothing to do with her it is now time to make things different, we will set up access times and stick to them we will not be friends you can pick up and drop off S in drive and you and I have no more contact, that will make it easier with OW and S will have routine and have to get used to it....... I can't believe that this has happened like this he has no balls at all so looks like I am now going to become the bi$ch from hell but he deserves it he is not a father's ar$e hole if he is going to allow this when him and I had said no matter what we had to get along for Sons sake. So there you have it thats my update pretty stuffed isn't it......DKD
