Quote: This year he will be lucky to get a present or a card from anyone. I will buy him something small from S9 but that is it. Maybe he will realise what he has lost?????DKD
I'm like you about birthdays... love to make a fuss. This year I did something small from the kids. But it was really thoughtful (not personal or emotional) and he was really grateful.
He'll notice the loss. He may not communicate it, but he'll feel it.