Hi Kim
Wow what i wouldn't do to have my H wrap his arms around me and say he's sorry..mine just wraps his little fingers around his phone and texts me those word...once in a blue moon... so is that considered a baby step for me and a baby leap for you

You go twin friend!!! I probably would have said "sit down now and i'll make a cuppa"

Let him feel it and don't you feel bad about it. Has he cared what you feel? NO NO NO so why are we always so worried about their feelings? That one really bothers me...it's like they've lost all theirs...given them to us i guess as it feels like we now feel double of everything...are we trying to feel for them too? Sometimes i wonder?!?

You sound so sad! Hope you are okay....see the twin thing again....youre sad and i'm crying. Cheer up and think maybe this is a baby step for him to learn that you can't do this and expect good things in return like a huge fuss on your bday from your wife who you have been cheating on. I really wonder how they think they are thinking logically. I know that DB or DR says they are behaving like Aliens but could the damn mother ship come down and take them all away until they are somewhat normal again so that we don't have to continually keep getting hurt. I'd rather mine be gone than around upsetting me and making me think about things and him ....how much are they thinking about anything other than themselves....not even their children can snap them out of their selfishness.

Don't worry sister twin One day he will know what he lost...what goes around comes around...it just sucks that we are the ones that have to be hurt...it should only be them and their OP that should HAVE to feel pain.

Hope i vented enough for both of us and that it made you feel a bit better...snap out of it girl and don't let him drag you down just because he is now...be happy that he is finally feeling some pain for once (i know, vengeful aren't i?) Well you only get what you deserve when you hurt the ones that love you..

Take care
Angelwings