Sorry...I also do not get the "sixes and sevens" joke. Hope I am not that thick??

Kim - I guessed you really just need to lie low and be Dark. If H doesn't call you with regards to S, then just do as you would as if H will not pick S up. You can always make up stuff about dad being busy or whatever. Don't call him....let him do the calling first. If it takes 2 weeks, 3 weeks, let it be. Read it somewhere that when the R ends with the OP, the INTENSE period can last up to 3 weeks. So, be patient. Go busy yourself with your new home!