Honestly....It will be the best thing for you to stop asking and dealing with the OW...take it from me. I had OW calling me and me calling her....she wanted to make me jealous and help push me and H further apart. Sometimes what you dont know cant hurt you(meaning about OW...how is she...did they talk..etc..)I have had a really hard time with it because she use to work with H and now she is blaming upper management (close family friends of mine) for giving me information about her...I have been in contact with her for over a year...she is just trying to cause problems. I feel for you but I know that we ALWAYS want to know the information but at the same time it doesnt make things any better. Hang in there and I will keep checking in on you...we can kick this OW thing together.