Thanks BlondeQT1 - I just can't be bothered anymore. I think I will take Yoyo's advice and ignore OW completely. I am not going to ask H how she is nothing. Apparently it's all over with H and OW but how would I know for sure, I wouldn't so therefore I am just going to pretend she doesn't exist and take each day as it comes. I am not contacting H at all and we will see what happens over the next few days. I am sure he will call me tomorrow again with some feeble excuse but if not I will just see him Friday when he picks up S9 and I will make sure I have his stuff ready so they can go straight away.....