Hey Yoyo not a problem shopping is always good but I must be ruthless and throw out all my crap first. I have decided over the next few weeks I am going to go through one room at a time and get rid of everything that does not serve a purpose or that has not been used in the last 6 months. This will be a new start for me and all H's things that are his own that I have no use for I am going to box and put in the garage. This way I can make a fresh start all the way around. I am going to set a couple of mini goals or short term goals. 1: Do not ask H how things are going with OW. 2: Be the one to end conversations with H, but nicely. 3: Start on cleansing the clutter in my house. (This is one that will be ongoing for awhile.
