Kim....Think you should really really CUT off all communication with the OW! Don't think it does you any good. I think hellkat is right...don't trust what she says. The reason I say to stop communication is because if you do talk to her, even if you tell yourself that you are not gonna believe what she says, it still stirs your mind and makes you wonder high and low. So, the best is totally STOP communication with her. TEXT, PHONE, etc..STOP!! You are doing so well now..you don't want something that OW tells you to get to you and make you fall off the ladder...