Well as I was saying Yoyo I think she and him are history. So all I can do is hope and be here for him and pick up the pieces and hopefully over time we will discover that this was a journey we both needed and that if we give our R another go it will be all the stronger for this mess that we have gone through. I am hoping if we can communicate and be honest and open in friendship, then if we give the M another go alot of the hard work is done and we may have a stronger marriage and if not well maybe we will both have a very dear friend indeed. Who knows it could be me in 1 week sitting hear bawling my eyes out for being stupid but we will see....Kim
