Kim...I applaud you for being so strong. I don't think that I could ever be friends with H if he were ever to leave. I know that is anti-DBIng...but it is really too hard. I don't think I can sit and hear him tell me how happy he is with OW, or that they are buying a house etc etc. I think that would drive me insane. I don't think I am that strong. As my SIL tells me, a sane single parent is better that one that is insane. Kim - don't let me derail you. I think what you are doing is great. In the long run, I am sure some positive is gonna come out...(as it is,....the true colours of the OW is showing...)

Keep up the good work!!