Hi guys, I did reply to you all but for some reason it didn't work so here I go again. Thanks YOYO and HELLKAT. YOYO I would go away if I could but can't take time off work and am looking for another house so don't have the time unfortunately. Yes HELLKAT I agree we mirror image each other in alot of ways. Hey DAUPHNE I agree my H could definately be going through MLC as I said when I did the calculations it is about 3 years since the bomb about his dad time flies I actually thought it was 2 years but someone pointed out I was wrong. I will pop over to your forum in the next few days and check it out as it could well be suited to my sitch........ Well H has rung me with feeble excuses nearly every day and I just answer him and finish the conversation. Like today he rang me at work just to see if Saturday night he was still right to take our S, which I had organised with him on phone last night when he rang. I said yes and he said he will ring me tonight. I said there really is no need nothing will change and he insisted that he would check in tonight, I again said there is no need and I may not be home to which he replied, I will ring tomorrow if I don't get you tonight and I said if you must but nothing will change. Can you figure them out I can't why ring for no reason??????Anyway not much further developments than the phone calls so I will continue to be distant and aloof while I figure myself out......No YOYO I haven't gone that dark but I am very confused at the moment and am feeling a bit like a few others is it worth all this??? that is what I have to work out now for myself. Will keep you updated. It is now the weekend here downunder so i wish you all a great weekend and will catch up again on Monday. Chow for now....Kim
