DesperateKim, I want to clarify what I said about his childhood trauma.

You wrote:

"I thought it was to do with revelations about his dad interferring with his sisters that did his head in as that was 2 years ago but this is 3 YEARS. No excuses now,"

That he learned only 2 years ago about what his dad did doesn't change the fact that there was this terrible secret when he was a child, even if he didn't know about it. What his dad did affected them all. His family was not "normal".

Dauphine