Hey Kim! I guessed what is done is done. What I think you should do now is go dark for now. Avoid his phone calls for now. Do your own stuff....and wait for him to be the desperate one to be in touch with you. And NEVER NEVER communicate with the OW again, no matter what happens. You don't want her to be your nemesis or friend. Like in DR, you must IGNORE her existence. Although you H is not living at home, you need to get on with you life as-if everything is hanky-dory. Patience is the key now....
