Thanks Glg I know where you are coming from and I hope that isn't the case but I can tell you we wont be doing that again until OW is gone. Once was enough I was weak and couldn't resist as it has always been good with us as he said and I didn't think it would hurt to remind him of how good things were and what he was missing but hey I will find out if it worked tonight. As for STD never had one neither has he and I wont be going there again until she is gone. Thanks though I will keep it in mind. So sorry for you though, I will read your thread and reply to that one....Kim
