Well guys here it is Friday and I have to wait another 4 hours before I see him and see what he is going to say. He has been saying on the phone that he wants to talk Friday night and giving all indications that he wants to work it out but I have only one question. What about the OW. There is no way I am going to work on our relationship if he is still seeing her. It is all or nothing I feel. I will let him speak first tonight and see what he is saying and then I will say in order for us to see what is happening with us she needs to be out of the picture as if you can't end it with her you truly do not want to give our relationship 100%. This may not be the right thing to do but I am going to say that anyhow. I won't be putting any other pressure on him I will be just saying there is no us until she is gone. I hate this waiting but 4 more hours and I might just be happy although I don't know. Do you think they can get rid of them like that????? Well it will tell me one way or the other as he is not truly trying to make it work unless she is gone. That will only confuse him more and if that pushes him away well that is something I will have to deal with. I am not going up and down all the time. It's fine when you are working at getting them to this point but when they are there I think then you can be honest. What do you all think????? Kim
