Hey Guys, See YoYo you are not the only one who thinks them but as we have told you it gets you nowhere when you do think that way so it's best to make yourself think of something else. Hey HELLKAT, thanks for that and I hope that doesn't happen with us. He has rung last night and today and we have decided to go out for drinks on Friday night to discuss our sitch. He doesn't overly like talking on the phone and says he prefers to speak in person. I said to him that I just wanted to know that he felt he was heading in the same direction as me and he said he thought he was. He maintains that Tuesday night had a big impact on him and that he wants to discuss where we go from here on Friday. I also asked him if he had told OW and he said no I want to speak to you b4 doing anything. I wanted to get an answer out of him then and there but didn't want to push him away. So I said O.K. as long as we are going to talk and be honest that is fine but remember this is my life you are playing with and he said I know and the last thing I want to do is muck you around lets just talk Friday and go from there. I said O.K. and he said he would ring me tonight. So at least he still wants to ring and I will have to be patient and get through tonight and all day tomorrow and then I will know more. I dont think I will be able to post any more until Tuesday as it is a public holiday here in Australia on Monday and I dont know if I will be near the computer. Will keep you updated a.s.a.p. Goodluck to you all with your own sitchs....Kim