WOW...what a night!! Think what you need to do is to continue with your DBing and NOT pressure him. You cannot expect him to suddenly decide to come home. Also, you wouldn't want to have any expectations because then you may get dissapointed if things don't turn out as you expected. Although deep down, you want him to COME home now, and ditch the OW, I think you shouldn't mention it at all...let him decide himself...
(I actually asked this question on my own thread..a NO NO but did you ever wonder if he thinks of the OW when ML to you?)
