Thanks YoYo - To keep you updated he has rung me back and said she is working tonight and did I want to go around and give him that massage. I said I could but what if she turned up and he said he didnt think she would. I could hear the uncertainty in his voice but figure what the hell, I will go and see what happens but if he tries anything more I think I will stop it if I can and tell him he had better work himself out. Always trying to DB. It does make me wonder though as if he had no feelings for me he would not want this to happen but he did say on the weekend he has doubts so maybe this is the beginning, I will have to see. I worry that I may be doing the wrong thing but i think it is a trip I must take......