Dearjohn and YoYo, too late I confronted her a week ago now. She was away when he told me about her as him and I were supposed to be having another go. After I calmed down over the OW bomb I said to him I would speak to her and then leave her alone as I couldn't understand how she could look me in the face twice when she had been doing him. He said he understood it was something I had to do and that she was ready for it and was accepting that it was something I needed to do. How weird is that. She proceeded to tell me that they had fought their feeling for a year but couldn't fight them anymore and she didn't think my H would even be interested in her but she still kept trying and was pleasantly surprised when he said he was interested too. She says she loves him and will do anything for him as she wants to spend her life with him and will never get in the way of him and his kids and she said he still cares alot for me and knows we still have to see each other. I dont know what game she is playing at but I said to my H that I had spoken to her and that was done that I wouldnt bother her again just needed to hear what she had to say and that they were free to do what they wanted and he had made his decision to be with her and I accepted that. He told me he didn't know if it would work out with her but he had to see and didn't expect me to hang around and wait but if I was still single and it didn't work for them he would let me be the 1st to know. Ha big deal. So sorry guys but I have done that even though I know now I probably shouldnt have its done. It doesnt seem to have ruined anything more and I started DBing after that....Thanks for that site about ask men I will have a look at that....Its interesting to hear a mans point of view and please feel free to give more....Kim
