YoYoGirl - Thanks for replying it is good to know others are going through the same thing. I think it gives you encouragement to keep going. I am dying to hear of someone who has succeeded in this situation though. It is just the worst feeling isn't it you feel like you are 2nd best and just wish they would wake up to themselves and realise what they are doing but it's not that easy. I will just keep doing 180's and hope he notices the change and misses it. Thanks again and Goodluck with you....Kim
