How have you reacted to baby steps in the past? You don't want to do it that way.
Are you sure her LL isn't acts of service, because she seems to be giving you that. I think all the things you have listed are great. I guess I'd stay relaxed, positive, happy, confident and not make any advances. It sounds like to me that she is actually progressing rather than just staying in one spot with the R. I'd let her move at her pace. I sincerely believe that you don't necessarily have to have some sort of R talk at this point or suddenly shower her with acts of service or whatever. She's getting there....just be patient and go with the flow. You know..when you first fell in love with each other I doubt very seriously it was preceded with a R talk. One of these days down the road you might find that things spontaneously happen.
When she's on the bed do you get on there too to play with your daughter? Or just watch? Just curious. I probably wouldn't/couldn't restrain myself (as you know). Just be patient UD. It's all good.
In the end, it's not the years in your life that count. It's the life in your years. Abraham Lincoln
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt
