Hmm..an MLC book that I have not read?!! I am slacker arent I? Amazon.com, here I come...
All:
Just want to record some baby steps from my WAW: 1. When she comes over she lies down in my bed (used to be our bed ) and plays with D3. 2. Accidental touching is routine now and neither she nor I care to feel anything is strange about it. 3. WAW actually bought me two pairs of running socks at the mall for me last night! She said she was out buying (up a storm) clothes for herself and she picked me up a couple. First non-occasion gift in 2 years folks! Her LL is gift-giving. What's with that? 4. She offered to give me a ride to the airport tomorrow (I did not ask).... 5. Continues to make me tea when I go over to her place to pick up D3 and offers breakfast-type things. Totally
Many concrete baby steps here. OK, what do I do? I am just going to maintain my position and wait for what? Any suggestions? In the past every time she has made baby steps, when I have reacted and put pressure, kaboom, you know the routine......I want to hear words of reconnection, from my WAW, not actions. Am I being stupid?
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The 3 laws of DBing:
1. PMA is critical to DBing.
2. Since drop in WAW's PMA leads to drop in LBS's PMA and vice-versa detachment is critical.
3. Validate to raise WAW's PMA and GAL to raise LBS's.
) and plays with D3.
