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If the WAS does not turn around after a protracted period of demonstrating these actions, then at least we would have gotten back to becoming wonderful human beings and there is clearly a great deal of spiritual growth that has been accomplished.




And my first timeline on seeing if my actions have done anything has only produced some baby steps.

My own spiritual growth has accelerated some in the past two years. But I haven't seen it much from ex's side. Not that it matters at this point, only working w/my beliefs.

I guess my ILY ? was actually similar to the discussion we had previously on the guilt issue. Until the WAS wants to face it, we are going down another cheeseless tunnel!