I am clearly in the minority here and is not doubt keeping me from moving forward.
But I have little compassion for WAW. They quit on the M and R and left their H and their family.
If they had to come to us and said "Hey, something does not feel right, I might need some time to sort things out, but I would like your help and you and the M and the family are important to me."
But in my specific case, she did not. She said she could not do this anymore. She could not come home everynight and be unfulfilled. Something is missing and she did not know what? So she quit and I still have trouble getting over that.
I would gladly have done anything for her and the M and us but was never given the chance.
So, until I get past that, I am going to have a difficult time being her "friend" or having compassion.
But I am amazed at your guys efforts and feelings for the X.
